我觉得每一个人生阶段都有不同的好朋友。
还未上学前，我和妹妹时常和佑胜以及两个表哥，阿良与阿杰玩在一起。因为没有烦恼，不用上课，时间都过得好像用不完似的。
小学时，和我最好的朋友是序雁、恩庭、国威、幼诗和翠莹。那一段时间是快乐的，因为我们都没有什么烦恼，最怕是朋友不跟我们好。是不是觉得记忆犹新？对，那时候我们都爱讲，“我跟他好，我不要跟你好！“。只是一两天时间，我们就会忍不住跟对方讲回话，和好如初。那时候，我们玩追追、跳绳、五粒子…… 上到四年级，进了优秀班，那是最大的转捩点，人生改变良多皆始于此。好朋友开始不再联络，游戏没得玩，只剩下一堆永远做不完的功课！匆匆地，三年就这样过去了！还好，让我认识了玉梅、怡倩、敏仪、嘉惠、宏波、景镕、筠蕾……时间才不觉得太寂寞！虽然优秀班的时间挺沉闷，但是有景镕的笑话调剂下，压力也少了很多！
上到中学，让我遇到了晓妮、薇玲、丽君、瀚明、国星等人……大家开始打打闹闹过日子，咱们比功课、和老师开玩笑、学者那种好像一世纪都学不会的国文文法、排舞为教师节表演……我还记得，虽然我们的舞蹈不伦不类，但是我们很开心能为老师表演。但是，现在我打定不会再有勇气呈现舞蹈。中一换班，让我认识了佩媚、权光、文顺、慧沁、国祥、Rebecca……还有，时常会脸红的家辉，很有上进心的张家伦……权光时常搞怪，我和佩媚总是被他都得哈哈笑！还有，我的其中一个好朋友是康文，陪我一起去找补习班、一起做模型。中四再分班，遇上了瑾仪、国辉、国威、荣喜和师傅均威等人，成立了一个纯属搞笑作用的“弱智会“。虽说如此，他们却年年为学校赢得环保比赛冠军！
我仍旧记得我们一同为国庆日布置课室，结果出动总动员制作国旗。还有，插班生伟文，一个让当时的我觉得不可思议的男孩。他爸爸的诗词被用作SPM国文理解试卷里的考题，讲述的是有关他爷爷的事情，可是他一直是国文最高分的小子，差点就因为他爸爸和他爷爷的考题给弄垮了。 因为这件事咱们笑了很久，因为他说批改的老师不可能比他更了解他爷爷。天啊！班上还有个传统，谁拿最高分就得把考卷交出，让一众好友揉皱发泄。后来，这个传统不懂被哪个老师发现了，把我们训了一顿。
中五毕业后，许多朋友都各奔前程。上中六的上中六，上大学的上大学，出国的出国，进学院的进学院……我的朋友群也换了美珊、Wai Kean、其辉、丽薪、炳堂……
过后，我认识了印尼留学生飞燕、Daniel、Pik Foong、Raymond、Cherry、俊权……我们一起温习功课，一起赶电影上映，一起吃夜宵，还有一起傻乎乎地赶Assignments……糊里糊涂，我们就毕业了！穿上毕业礼服，我们不再像以往一样为分别而流泪，相反的，我们很期待等待着我们的前程。
没想到一转眼，我们已经在外面打滚了五、六年……工作的忙碌磨去了不少我们的时间、青春，也开始令我的记忆模糊……我只能依稀记得一些以往的朋友和部分开心的段落。
虽然佑胜已经在美国定居，阿杰表哥也因血癌过世了。有些朋友现正身在外国，有些已有家庭，还有很多我已经不认得的朋友，都已断了讯息。不管有没有机会再见，在这里和你们干一杯！祝友谊万岁！因为你们都曾经在我生命里留下回忆，也是我心里最深的思念！
P/S: 很遗憾，脑袋不能一下记得所有朋友，所以文章没有尽录所有好友的名字。其中遗漏的还有《星洲日报》学记，特别是第11届学记、学哥维岩、学姐剑兰和清莲，还有玉秀、曾毓林、成熹、伟康、Su-Ann、YY、Evon、Kimberly……
2009年9月18日星期五
2009年7月14日星期二
Sun Rise
Back Row (From Left to Right): Ray, Su-Ann, I myself and JaQFront Row (From Left to Right): Evon, Kim and Daniel
Haning out with old friends are nice!!!
Sun Rise - A Hope for the Day
Showering with Sunshine, I found myself hugging the Happiness..
These are the pictures captured at Broga Hill and we love them so much.. 2009年7月3日星期五
Trip to Broga Hill
On 27th June 2009, I have went to Broga Hill with my friends - Ray, Daniel, Kim, Su-Ann, Evon and my boyfriend JaQ.
This is a trip planned by Ray & his colleagues. So it is a big group went there together. I met my old friend, Bernice there.. World is small, I do not know Bernice is now Ray's colleague.
Normally, I don't like this kind of outdoor activities. Sweat a lot, suffer a lot, etc.. But this time, I seriously enjoy it.
We woke up at 4am. Journey started at 4.30am. Reached there at 6am because waited Ray's colleagues in the middle of our journey. When we reached to the palm tree farm, it was so dark and we need to rely on torch light to move forward. We climbed difficultly and finally reached to the peak of the hill. Sun is not rise yet.. Hey! Why are we got up so early??
At about 9am, the sun started to rise. It is BEAUTIFUL!! Everyone clapped their hands and some people screamed. I do not know why they want to scream, but I didn't do so.
We have taken a lot of nice pictures. That is so beautiful! Therefore, I placed this picture here.. Yes, my boyfriend and I myself enjoying the sunrise moment! So romantic!!! :-)
2009年6月19日星期五
Event Management Experience
Must admit, I really like to run events.. This year, have been organizing quite a number of big shows with very limited resources, I really feeling tired. Yes, extremely tired. I started feel like getting older and older, and my brain is not functioning well.. It tends to be forgetful. Maybe I have been killing my brain cells these few years..
I hope I am not getting heart attack problem.. Chris from eBay hopes I will not burst my vein, but I believe I am nearly heading to that stage.. I don't like people use "relationship" to threaten me (e.g. I know .., you should help me to do..) I don't like people blame my team without given me a proper reason.. I don't like people pointing finger at me when I am not at fault.. I don't like people demanding.. I don't like people take credit without delivering her tasks.. I don't like people complaint without knowledge on the real situation. However, organizing an event, these are the situations I always encounter.. I always tell my team, must get use to it, never shed a tear!!!
I think passion is important, but motivation is more critical. How to motivate myself is something I still need to learn.. but I believe, with passion, I still can find ways to motivate myself..Now I wonder when can I retire early.. so I can read all my favourite books, listen to my favourite music.. Also, to accompany my family members and my lonely boyfriend. I have been sacrificying my personal time on my work life where I cannot find the balance.. But I enjoy my work because it is challenging!!! Thanks to my boss as he recognizes my efforts, understands my strength so well and most importantly he has confidence on me.. I like my boss so much!
Anyway, this Sunday I must celebrate Father's day with my daddy and my lovely family members. I hope I can slowly find the balance point, so I will be able to take good care of my family and my boyfriend while remain to be a capable assistant to my boss. I know it is not easy, but i will try..
I hope I am not getting heart attack problem.. Chris from eBay hopes I will not burst my vein, but I believe I am nearly heading to that stage.. I don't like people use "relationship" to threaten me (e.g. I know .., you should help me to do..) I don't like people blame my team without given me a proper reason.. I don't like people pointing finger at me when I am not at fault.. I don't like people demanding.. I don't like people take credit without delivering her tasks.. I don't like people complaint without knowledge on the real situation. However, organizing an event, these are the situations I always encounter.. I always tell my team, must get use to it, never shed a tear!!!
I think passion is important, but motivation is more critical. How to motivate myself is something I still need to learn.. but I believe, with passion, I still can find ways to motivate myself..Now I wonder when can I retire early.. so I can read all my favourite books, listen to my favourite music.. Also, to accompany my family members and my lonely boyfriend. I have been sacrificying my personal time on my work life where I cannot find the balance.. But I enjoy my work because it is challenging!!! Thanks to my boss as he recognizes my efforts, understands my strength so well and most importantly he has confidence on me.. I like my boss so much!
Anyway, this Sunday I must celebrate Father's day with my daddy and my lovely family members. I hope I can slowly find the balance point, so I will be able to take good care of my family and my boyfriend while remain to be a capable assistant to my boss. I know it is not easy, but i will try..
2009年5月25日星期一
On Leave for Vacation or for Work??
I have applied 2-day leave so I can go for vacation to relax since there is no event in May. I am not in KL today.. Laptop is not with me as this is a personal trip, I am not suppose to check my emails or work.. That means relax.. However, there are a numbers of incoming calls from office and business associates who is expecting me to work durng my leave..
My boss not even call me when he noticed I am on leave.. Why can't everyone respect my precious holidays. This is so precious to me.. Finally came out with press releases need to be translated urgently.. Hey everyone, I have placed into the calendar and sent to everyone that I will be on leave.. Can't you all plan ahead to assign tasks to me?
I have no choice, after much consideration, I bought a ticket and rush back to KL to check my emails and assign tasks to my colleagues accordingly. Should I celebrate my leave with my piling up emails and the translated tasks? No option, life still going on..
Just like yesterday night, boss SMS-ed me to notify me that our business associate, Mr. Chan has passed away. I was so shock because he has recovered from his cancer last year. He is so friendly and smart in running business, he has so many plans in his mind, he wanted to do so much, but still have to leave the lovely world. Life always no options.
My boss not even call me when he noticed I am on leave.. Why can't everyone respect my precious holidays. This is so precious to me.. Finally came out with press releases need to be translated urgently.. Hey everyone, I have placed into the calendar and sent to everyone that I will be on leave.. Can't you all plan ahead to assign tasks to me?
I have no choice, after much consideration, I bought a ticket and rush back to KL to check my emails and assign tasks to my colleagues accordingly. Should I celebrate my leave with my piling up emails and the translated tasks? No option, life still going on..
Just like yesterday night, boss SMS-ed me to notify me that our business associate, Mr. Chan has passed away. I was so shock because he has recovered from his cancer last year. He is so friendly and smart in running business, he has so many plans in his mind, he wanted to do so much, but still have to leave the lovely world. Life always no options.
2009年5月23日星期六
Young Entrepreneurship? Funding?
Yesterday I attended an informal gathering related to young entrepreneurship at Pavilion's Glitter Cafe, i think maybe it is specifically for technopreneurs only.
In fact, I don't really enjoy the gathering because I only heard of a lot of negative feedbacks, comments and complaints.. I heard they mentioned about funds for entrepreneurs. They talked about Grants and Loans that available in the market. I think I have to admit, working 4 years in MIRC, I am good enough to brief people and even giving talk about SME and technopreneur funds. I found that most of the grant and loan applicants are not familiar with the fund application process and when they are rejected, they will spread the negative news out..
In Malaysia, many funds are available to assist businesses to be started, to grow and expand. However, many people have a different view on all these funds. Sometime I have to admit, applicants are too sensitive. I will need to address this point because I met a lot of them.. I think some time I will need to agree with what Keng Yew said. Keng Yew is a technopreneur, he said that as an entrepreneur, you cannot always sit there to complaint, should find a way to solve the problem. I think that's right.. Entrepreneur is person who would like to take risks.
When those participants said they don't understand why entrepreneurs cannot start their new ventures with their own money, but wait for the government grants approval. My comment is they are not entrepreneurs. Entrepreneurs will know there will be risks whenever they want to be entrepreneurs.
Sometimes, people want to start business because they know grants and soft loans are available. This is a wrong perception. Government wants to hep those people really intended to start a business, therefore government provide grants and soft loans to businesses to assist them. Please bear in mind, only 50% of your business will be funded by government grant if your application is approved.
Sometimes, people looking for loan to cover another loan he borrowed. That is very funny! No grants or soft loans are allocated for you to clear your debts. Sometimes, the borrowers were blacklisted by Bank Negara, they will still insist to try for grants and loans application. If you really encounter the above mentioned problems, please look for AKPK to assist you. No other financial institutions or banks can lend their hands out because you are not a qualified applicants. Don't blame the banks, they just do their jobs. Will you be doing a business with people who cannot give you any return? Definitely not.. therefore don't blame, sit down and think of other ways to solve your financial problems.
I believe Young Entrepreneurs should think positively and must be able to motivate people surrounding you. Never ever spread the words out saying that government is not helping SMEs or technopreneurs.. Must bear in mind, your application being rejected does not reflect that your friends will be rejected too. From my perspective, I would say NO HARM TRYING!
Young entrepreneurs, Gambateh!!
In fact, I don't really enjoy the gathering because I only heard of a lot of negative feedbacks, comments and complaints.. I heard they mentioned about funds for entrepreneurs. They talked about Grants and Loans that available in the market. I think I have to admit, working 4 years in MIRC, I am good enough to brief people and even giving talk about SME and technopreneur funds. I found that most of the grant and loan applicants are not familiar with the fund application process and when they are rejected, they will spread the negative news out..
In Malaysia, many funds are available to assist businesses to be started, to grow and expand. However, many people have a different view on all these funds. Sometime I have to admit, applicants are too sensitive. I will need to address this point because I met a lot of them.. I think some time I will need to agree with what Keng Yew said. Keng Yew is a technopreneur, he said that as an entrepreneur, you cannot always sit there to complaint, should find a way to solve the problem. I think that's right.. Entrepreneur is person who would like to take risks.
When those participants said they don't understand why entrepreneurs cannot start their new ventures with their own money, but wait for the government grants approval. My comment is they are not entrepreneurs. Entrepreneurs will know there will be risks whenever they want to be entrepreneurs.
Sometimes, people want to start business because they know grants and soft loans are available. This is a wrong perception. Government wants to hep those people really intended to start a business, therefore government provide grants and soft loans to businesses to assist them. Please bear in mind, only 50% of your business will be funded by government grant if your application is approved.
Sometimes, people looking for loan to cover another loan he borrowed. That is very funny! No grants or soft loans are allocated for you to clear your debts. Sometimes, the borrowers were blacklisted by Bank Negara, they will still insist to try for grants and loans application. If you really encounter the above mentioned problems, please look for AKPK to assist you. No other financial institutions or banks can lend their hands out because you are not a qualified applicants. Don't blame the banks, they just do their jobs. Will you be doing a business with people who cannot give you any return? Definitely not.. therefore don't blame, sit down and think of other ways to solve your financial problems.
I believe Young Entrepreneurs should think positively and must be able to motivate people surrounding you. Never ever spread the words out saying that government is not helping SMEs or technopreneurs.. Must bear in mind, your application being rejected does not reflect that your friends will be rejected too. From my perspective, I would say NO HARM TRYING!
Young entrepreneurs, Gambateh!!
2009年5月19日星期二
《流波上的舞》读后感
看完了张小娴的《流波上的舞》，心情甚是沉重。
故事里有远距离的爱情、忠诚、背叛、三角关系......就像一个活生生的故事。
我和女主角有一个共同点。我们都曾经很依赖很依赖我们的男友。以前，我每天都会见到我的男友。自从他搬出家里之后，我每个星期或两个星期才见到他一次。初期，我会哭。久而久之，我变得不需要在依赖他。女主角也一样，当她的男友离开香港去了波斯顿后天天哭，后来终究还是会适应下来。我想女生都有长大变独立的本能吧！
故事令我觉得最沉重的竟是结局。
结果，当另一个条件好的男生出现在她的生活里后，她开始了背叛男友，偷偷和该男生约会。孰不知，她态度的改变，令到远在波斯顿的男友愿意为她回去香港找她。故事前提是她的这个男友一直不肯回香港，但却一直要求女主角去波斯顿找他。最后，女生与男生共舞作为道别，虽然她已深深爱上了这个男生。之后她就移民去美国，和男友同居。
相隔两三年后，一位老朋友在纽约开聚会，邀请了女生与男生。双方都很想见对方，但是因为一场大风雪，女生不能开车去纽约。他的男友看见她气急败坏的样子，知道他想要见那个男生。于是，男友提议载她出门，但她婉拒了。最后，男友搬新家，但没有叫她同行，他只交代说只要她想回到他身边还是可以的，但是她必须彻底忘记她心里面的那个男生。分手后，她忽然觉得重获自由，可是同时她失去了两个男人。
我不明白为什么她的男友可以这么深爱她。明知道她要见另一个男生，还肯为她开车。 还愿意等她回去。难道这才叫爱情？那么委曲求全的爱情不是很苦吗？
我不懂为什么爱情里会有时间不对的情况出现？是心态的问题吗？还是我们贪恋的问题？贪恋别人的宠爱、贪恋自己的魅力、贪恋两个男人的爱情......
生命里，可能会在不同时候遇到几个不同的好男人。但是能和你终老中就只有一个或是孤零零的一个人过下半世。因此，要忠于自己的爱情。在爱情的世界里，没有对还是错，终究只是人生里其中一道选择题。
故事里有远距离的爱情、忠诚、背叛、三角关系......就像一个活生生的故事。
我和女主角有一个共同点。我们都曾经很依赖很依赖我们的男友。以前，我每天都会见到我的男友。自从他搬出家里之后，我每个星期或两个星期才见到他一次。初期，我会哭。久而久之，我变得不需要在依赖他。女主角也一样，当她的男友离开香港去了波斯顿后天天哭，后来终究还是会适应下来。我想女生都有长大变独立的本能吧！
故事令我觉得最沉重的竟是结局。
结果，当另一个条件好的男生出现在她的生活里后，她开始了背叛男友，偷偷和该男生约会。孰不知，她态度的改变，令到远在波斯顿的男友愿意为她回去香港找她。故事前提是她的这个男友一直不肯回香港，但却一直要求女主角去波斯顿找他。最后，女生与男生共舞作为道别，虽然她已深深爱上了这个男生。之后她就移民去美国，和男友同居。
相隔两三年后，一位老朋友在纽约开聚会，邀请了女生与男生。双方都很想见对方，但是因为一场大风雪，女生不能开车去纽约。他的男友看见她气急败坏的样子，知道他想要见那个男生。于是，男友提议载她出门，但她婉拒了。最后，男友搬新家，但没有叫她同行，他只交代说只要她想回到他身边还是可以的，但是她必须彻底忘记她心里面的那个男生。分手后，她忽然觉得重获自由，可是同时她失去了两个男人。
我不明白为什么她的男友可以这么深爱她。明知道她要见另一个男生，还肯为她开车。 还愿意等她回去。难道这才叫爱情？那么委曲求全的爱情不是很苦吗？
我不懂为什么爱情里会有时间不对的情况出现？是心态的问题吗？还是我们贪恋的问题？贪恋别人的宠爱、贪恋自己的魅力、贪恋两个男人的爱情......
生命里，可能会在不同时候遇到几个不同的好男人。但是能和你终老中就只有一个或是孤零零的一个人过下半世。因此，要忠于自己的爱情。在爱情的世界里，没有对还是错，终究只是人生里其中一道选择题。
2009年5月15日星期五
听说爱情回来过......
一天，很迟才下班，男朋友打电话给我，问我在哪里。我还在月台等着地铁，时间多得很，就开始和他诉苦。诉说工作上的压力和不愉快。说着说着，我的脾气就开始来了。
男朋友知道我不开心，就对我说了以下的一段话，虽然像是安慰的话，但是却令我倍感窝心。
他说：“假如是做得不开心就别做了，我可以养你呀！”
我听了，还对他说不要和我开玩笑。怎料他竟然说，“我是认真的，是你一直以为我在开玩笑。”
听后，心中真的觉得窝心，真的甜在心里。结果，一整天的压力都飞到九霄云外去了。
我一直觉得，两人相处时间很短，一周才见一次。 一直在想不懂我们的感情可否经得起距离的考验。没想到他的一句话，不但把我俩的距离拉得更近，也令我觉得他真的是一个很体贴的男友。
当然，我不会当真要去辞职，只盼有人肯聆听自己发牢骚。拥有自己的事业何尝不是一件美好的事呢！同时拥有自己的事业，成就受肯定，还有男友疼爱和体谅，真是人生乐事！我真的要感恩了！！
男朋友知道我不开心，就对我说了以下的一段话，虽然像是安慰的话，但是却令我倍感窝心。
他说：“假如是做得不开心就别做了，我可以养你呀！”
我听了，还对他说不要和我开玩笑。怎料他竟然说，“我是认真的，是你一直以为我在开玩笑。”
听后，心中真的觉得窝心，真的甜在心里。结果，一整天的压力都飞到九霄云外去了。
我一直觉得，两人相处时间很短，一周才见一次。 一直在想不懂我们的感情可否经得起距离的考验。没想到他的一句话，不但把我俩的距离拉得更近，也令我觉得他真的是一个很体贴的男友。
当然，我不会当真要去辞职，只盼有人肯聆听自己发牢骚。拥有自己的事业何尝不是一件美好的事呢！同时拥有自己的事业，成就受肯定，还有男友疼爱和体谅，真是人生乐事！我真的要感恩了！！
挥一挥衣袖，不带走一片云彩
离别，总是意味着一场伤心的挥别。
徐志摩曾写过：
轻轻的我走了，正如我轻轻的来，我挥一挥衣袖，不带走一片云彩。
潇洒的挥别，给人一种洒脱的感觉。可是，我从来都做不到这么洒脱。也许是因为我很感性，每次离别都会带给我无奈。
有人说，每次离别都是另一场相聚。而我却觉得离别不一定会有另一场相聚，而是有缘再聚。缘来缘去，缘起缘落，身边的人可能都只是过客，来去匆匆，但是只要懂得珍惜当下，每一次相聚都会无悔。
凯胜、慧娟、建明和义煌，让我们有缘再聚！
徐志摩曾写过：
轻轻的我走了，正如我轻轻的来，我挥一挥衣袖，不带走一片云彩。
潇洒的挥别，给人一种洒脱的感觉。可是，我从来都做不到这么洒脱。也许是因为我很感性，每次离别都会带给我无奈。
有人说，每次离别都是另一场相聚。而我却觉得离别不一定会有另一场相聚，而是有缘再聚。缘来缘去，缘起缘落，身边的人可能都只是过客，来去匆匆，但是只要懂得珍惜当下，每一次相聚都会无悔。
凯胜、慧娟、建明和义煌，让我们有缘再聚！
2009年5月14日星期四
Say Goodbye to Huei Chuen & My Team
The team members leaving one by one, Huei Chuen left today, and Joe will be leaving tomorrow. The feeling is difficult to explain.. Wish they can stay and work with me, but at the same time I hope they further their studies and become someone powerful in the business world in future.
For the past few months, we have successfully organized so many events and I believe with our team spirit and working attitude, our team is a strong team. We can turn impossible to possible! We can create miracle!
A lot of sweet and bad times we experienced together. Yes, I have to admit I have trained them to have the attitude like me.
When Joe told the new interns, "Never ever tell your boss you don't know, must try to find out the solution for your boss, because you are hired to provide solution, not to say 'I don't know'." This statement surprised our incubatee, Julian. Yes.. This is the advice I always tell my trainees / interns. I know not only our organization, I believe all the organization will expect their staffs to have the same attitude.
I think it is hard to establish a team where everyone can click together. This time, we found the team. Everyone playing an important role in a team. Joe acted as CEO as he has the leadership skills. Huei Chuen acted as Joe's PA because her works are always neat and tidy (just like me!!). Yi Huang acted as CFO as he has strong financial background. Kean Meng acted as CMO as he is good in all marketing and PR writing aspects.
This is a fantastic team! I am proud of you guys!
Team, keep going ahead! Don't panic, nothing is impossible! Every step you take will lead you to a beautiful place. Don't be afraid of the challenges that you are going to face. You must not fear because all of you are well trained to handle all these. I believe all of you will be a very capable person in future. Good luck and take care!
p/s: I won't be around, so I cannot nag you all any more. Remember to eat even you are very busy!!! Remember to rest more though you have a lot of things to rush! Have enough rest only you could cope with any other last minute changes.
For the past few months, we have successfully organized so many events and I believe with our team spirit and working attitude, our team is a strong team. We can turn impossible to possible! We can create miracle!
A lot of sweet and bad times we experienced together. Yes, I have to admit I have trained them to have the attitude like me.
When Joe told the new interns, "Never ever tell your boss you don't know, must try to find out the solution for your boss, because you are hired to provide solution, not to say 'I don't know'." This statement surprised our incubatee, Julian. Yes.. This is the advice I always tell my trainees / interns. I know not only our organization, I believe all the organization will expect their staffs to have the same attitude.
I think it is hard to establish a team where everyone can click together. This time, we found the team. Everyone playing an important role in a team. Joe acted as CEO as he has the leadership skills. Huei Chuen acted as Joe's PA because her works are always neat and tidy (just like me!!). Yi Huang acted as CFO as he has strong financial background. Kean Meng acted as CMO as he is good in all marketing and PR writing aspects.
This is a fantastic team! I am proud of you guys!
Team, keep going ahead! Don't panic, nothing is impossible! Every step you take will lead you to a beautiful place. Don't be afraid of the challenges that you are going to face. You must not fear because all of you are well trained to handle all these. I believe all of you will be a very capable person in future. Good luck and take care!
p/s: I won't be around, so I cannot nag you all any more. Remember to eat even you are very busy!!! Remember to rest more though you have a lot of things to rush! Have enough rest only you could cope with any other last minute changes.
2009年5月11日星期一
与Interns说再见！
Kean Meng和Yi Huang在上个星期五终于结束了他们的Internship Program (Industrial Training Program)。我们大家都很不舍得！
和他们在一起相处了这么久，真的有万分的不舍。可是，天下无不散之筵席。我们都深懂这个道理，可是却还是会依依不舍。在他们身上，我也学会了不少东西。
曾经，Joe说过，不想很快长大，因为看见爸爸妈妈很快变老。曾几何时，我也有同感，觉得要孝顺就要在当下做。
在他们身上，我见到冲劲，改变，年轻的魅力......
当我看见Kean Meng的英文书写文笔进步得这么快，我真的感到很惊讶！惊讶于他肯下苦功，惊讶于他真的认真地去研究如何写好新闻文告。忽然间让我觉得年轻肯努力，一定会成就非凡。
还有，Yi Huang从常常犯小错误变成会小心行事，令我觉得他也成长了。是的，我觉得他的确是改变良多。我看得出他的自信心展现出来了。敢说话，不再懦弱就是最好的证明。
Huei Chuen一直都是一个细心的女生。很多公事上的细节都记录下来。所有事情都做得井井有条，绝对是一个心思稠密的得力女助手！很多时候，她都很独立，我很欣赏她这种性格。我老是觉得女生一定要学习独立，因为不可能一世都依赖男生。
和他们在一起就是有那种被鼓励、被激励要好好干下去的那种感觉。我很喜欢和他们一起谈天、讨论看法。因为他们想的东西或意见和我有很大的出入。
当我收到Kean Meng的信时，我真的有想哭的感觉。太感动，也觉得所付出的时间没有白费，真的栽培了好人才出来。
就让一切随缘!希望这次的离别是为了下一个美好的相聚。
和他们在一起相处了这么久，真的有万分的不舍。可是，天下无不散之筵席。我们都深懂这个道理，可是却还是会依依不舍。在他们身上，我也学会了不少东西。
曾经，Joe说过，不想很快长大，因为看见爸爸妈妈很快变老。曾几何时，我也有同感，觉得要孝顺就要在当下做。
在他们身上，我见到冲劲，改变，年轻的魅力......
当我看见Kean Meng的英文书写文笔进步得这么快，我真的感到很惊讶！惊讶于他肯下苦功，惊讶于他真的认真地去研究如何写好新闻文告。忽然间让我觉得年轻肯努力，一定会成就非凡。
还有，Yi Huang从常常犯小错误变成会小心行事，令我觉得他也成长了。是的，我觉得他的确是改变良多。我看得出他的自信心展现出来了。敢说话，不再懦弱就是最好的证明。
Huei Chuen一直都是一个细心的女生。很多公事上的细节都记录下来。所有事情都做得井井有条，绝对是一个心思稠密的得力女助手！很多时候，她都很独立，我很欣赏她这种性格。我老是觉得女生一定要学习独立，因为不可能一世都依赖男生。
和他们在一起就是有那种被鼓励、被激励要好好干下去的那种感觉。我很喜欢和他们一起谈天、讨论看法。因为他们想的东西或意见和我有很大的出入。
当我收到Kean Meng的信时，我真的有想哭的感觉。太感动，也觉得所付出的时间没有白费，真的栽培了好人才出来。
就让一切随缘!希望这次的离别是为了下一个美好的相聚。
2009年4月23日星期四
生日快乐 Happy Birthday
今天是我生日，是我叫他不要赶回来为我庆祝生日的。我知道他太累了，很想他多休息。
同事们都很热心，还为我买了一个我小时候很想要用有的粉红豹。我的儿时心愿总算圆了。你们都对我很好，很感动！只是希望大家能够永远都那么开心地一起工作。虽然抱着粉红豹有点好笑，可是心里是填得满满的开心，因为我打从心里知道，你们都是真的对我好！谢谢老板为了替我庆祝生日，延迟出发去新加坡。谢谢公司买了一个蛋糕为我庆祝！还要谢谢我的助手团为我制造短片和惊喜。我绝对明白在百忙中抽空做这种准备工作一点也不容易。无论如何，谢谢你们！还要谢谢Ashley出点子为我办生日会。谢谢WaiFoong和Joe特地从怡保带一份礼物回来。真的要谢谢你们！很感动！
同时，谢谢妈妈煮了一桌好菜。谢谢爸爸买了一个蛋糕。谢谢他为我作了一首我专属的生日歌。谢谢妍妍和静宜送的香水。谢谢阿哲送的雪糕和香槟。谢谢所有想令我开心的人。
忽然间，觉得自己老了。已经要接近三十岁了，做很多事情都有点力不从心了。
那晚和Janet等人喝茶，才发现她很敬佩我。可是我从来都不知道原来我也会有人崇拜。说实在，内心还是开心的。回想一下，妹妹和慧娟也曾对我说过这番话。很希望真能为她们树立一个好榜样。毕竟我还是比她们年长。
累了，已不能够在熬夜，还是早点上床休息吧！明天还得为晚宴筹备而伤神呢！真象自己办结婚晚宴。盼一切顺利！
同事们都很热心，还为我买了一个我小时候很想要用有的粉红豹。我的儿时心愿总算圆了。你们都对我很好，很感动！只是希望大家能够永远都那么开心地一起工作。虽然抱着粉红豹有点好笑，可是心里是填得满满的开心，因为我打从心里知道，你们都是真的对我好！谢谢老板为了替我庆祝生日，延迟出发去新加坡。谢谢公司买了一个蛋糕为我庆祝！还要谢谢我的助手团为我制造短片和惊喜。我绝对明白在百忙中抽空做这种准备工作一点也不容易。无论如何，谢谢你们！还要谢谢Ashley出点子为我办生日会。谢谢WaiFoong和Joe特地从怡保带一份礼物回来。真的要谢谢你们！很感动！
同时，谢谢妈妈煮了一桌好菜。谢谢爸爸买了一个蛋糕。谢谢他为我作了一首我专属的生日歌。谢谢妍妍和静宜送的香水。谢谢阿哲送的雪糕和香槟。谢谢所有想令我开心的人。
忽然间，觉得自己老了。已经要接近三十岁了，做很多事情都有点力不从心了。
那晚和Janet等人喝茶，才发现她很敬佩我。可是我从来都不知道原来我也会有人崇拜。说实在，内心还是开心的。回想一下，妹妹和慧娟也曾对我说过这番话。很希望真能为她们树立一个好榜样。毕竟我还是比她们年长。
累了，已不能够在熬夜，还是早点上床休息吧！明天还得为晚宴筹备而伤神呢！真象自己办结婚晚宴。盼一切顺利！
2009年4月19日星期日
Award Night Dinner with Tun Dr. Mahathir
A proud moment - I received an award from Tun Dr. Mahathir.
This dinner held by DPMMKL.
Thank you DPMMKL to let me have a chance to receive an award from Tun Dr. Mahathir and thank you Ashley for accompanying me to this dinner.
MCA Job Fair - 8th April 2009
My team who pouring souls and hearts to organize MCA Job Fair at KL. This Fair has successfully attracted more than 90 exhibitors and 4,000 visitors. It is a project under Project Revitalise.
We believe in our dreams and we understand "Noting is impossible"!
Team, well done! I am proud of you.
(From Left to Right: Kean Meng, Yi Huang, Alice, Huei Chuen, Wai Foong and Kai Shen)
2009年4月5日星期日
上司不易为
现在这个时代，上司真的不易为。
有些决策在大老板手上，我们这些所谓的上司就成了夹心人，除了要做丑人，还要维护老板面子，同时又要兼顾员工感受，真的是活受罪！
有时，同事因为个人尊严不愿合作，身为上司的我们又得两边投好，不能让老板发作，也不能让员工失去尊严。结果全部自己一人承受，有什么苦衷，都是眼泪在心里流。
很想大声说出来，其实我也只是一个普通人，没有三头六臂，更不是铁金刚，为什么没人能够体谅。是我不懂得做人，还是我做错过什么，要我为难、要我难受？？
对我来说，工作就是工作！我们可以寓工作于娱乐，但是却不能逃避我们应做的事情。老板出粮给我们，我们就应该要“受人钱财，替人消灾”。很多事情都应该以公司的利益为主，只要公司好，我们这些打工的也能跟着好。我想，应该很多人都不明白这个道理。
当然，无可否认，“沟通”在人事关系上也扮演着重要角色。不沟通就会有很多误解。可是，公司也有很多事情不是那么简单，不是交代两声就能了事，需要费神费精力去解决。通常，误会就会从这里开始。
我在中学的时候就学会，你不可能成为每个人都能接受、喜欢的人。可是，如果不喜欢你的人占了大多数，那么你就应该要开始反省。是的，很早很早就学会这样的道理，所以至今仍能应付人事问题。我一直不鼓励用强硬手段来行事，因为这样做会赢得同事“虚伪”的配合，却输掉了别人打从心里的“尊重”。可是渐渐地我发觉，有些员工是顽固不宁的。我想“人善被人欺”的道理就能在这里领略到。
有时候很累，很想找个地方躲起来，什么都不想，什么都不做。那么，我就不用再努力讨好别人，委屈自己。让我自己能生活得开心、满足。
有些决策在大老板手上，我们这些所谓的上司就成了夹心人，除了要做丑人，还要维护老板面子，同时又要兼顾员工感受，真的是活受罪！
有时，同事因为个人尊严不愿合作，身为上司的我们又得两边投好，不能让老板发作，也不能让员工失去尊严。结果全部自己一人承受，有什么苦衷，都是眼泪在心里流。
很想大声说出来，其实我也只是一个普通人，没有三头六臂，更不是铁金刚，为什么没人能够体谅。是我不懂得做人，还是我做错过什么，要我为难、要我难受？？
对我来说，工作就是工作！我们可以寓工作于娱乐，但是却不能逃避我们应做的事情。老板出粮给我们，我们就应该要“受人钱财，替人消灾”。很多事情都应该以公司的利益为主，只要公司好，我们这些打工的也能跟着好。我想，应该很多人都不明白这个道理。
当然，无可否认，“沟通”在人事关系上也扮演着重要角色。不沟通就会有很多误解。可是，公司也有很多事情不是那么简单，不是交代两声就能了事，需要费神费精力去解决。通常，误会就会从这里开始。
我在中学的时候就学会，你不可能成为每个人都能接受、喜欢的人。可是，如果不喜欢你的人占了大多数，那么你就应该要开始反省。是的，很早很早就学会这样的道理，所以至今仍能应付人事问题。我一直不鼓励用强硬手段来行事，因为这样做会赢得同事“虚伪”的配合，却输掉了别人打从心里的“尊重”。可是渐渐地我发觉，有些员工是顽固不宁的。我想“人善被人欺”的道理就能在这里领略到。
有时候很累，很想找个地方躲起来，什么都不想，什么都不做。那么，我就不用再努力讨好别人，委屈自己。让我自己能生活得开心、满足。
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